An explanation of my consistent holiday posts

[Lord Raab]

It's come to my attention that people seem to wonder why I have to go on holiday a lot and it's about time that I will tell you all another secret about something I've never said to any fed until today on here and in another place. You see the reason why I consistently go on holiday a lot is because this German friend of mine well let's say we are a lot closer than that and we've been going out for three years now. I am indeed a lesbian dating a German girl. That is why I go on holiday quite a lot because of me wanting to spend more time with her than RPing for matches. I'm happy to be with her and nobody can change that at all with me so of course all of my time is spent with her when I go to Germany or when she comes over to England. I will need time off as I already told Biggs in a PM yesterday straight after ONIH because of my girlfriend coming over to England from the 1st of November to the 11th of November.

Anyway my girlfriend's sister is getting married on the 21st of February to her fiancé so of course I would need time off there and plus my girlfriend's birthday so happens to be on the 15th of February as well along with Valentines day being on the 14th of February so yeah that's the reason for it. I told you all here and in another fed because you all treat me as a family member in APW and I trust you all as well. That's the story of my life.

[Jason Cashe]

I knew it! Well Raab told me a good minute ago but you have no reason to hide that. People don't look down on Lesbians. It's just the gays that get bashed by rude fuckers. I frankly don't care what you like as long as what you like makes you want to wake up in the morning. Makes you happy then by golly everyone else should just do them or congratulate you. So congrats on that Raab, secure your happiness.

[Reaver]

sex videos? LOL

i watched an episode of kardasians (dont ask me y) where 2 of them dressed up like the mom and dad and did a fake sex video and shared it with the family. bruce said it wasnt funny and stormed off then yelled about how the mom said she erased all those videos. talk about calling himself out lmfao. he felt stupid when they showed it was a fake.

[Lord Raab]

Maybe I should've said something sooner about this but I didn't know how it would come across on here and in another fed since she means a lot to me and I even paid her flight to see me in November cos she doesn't have a debit or a credit card. I mean I would do anything for this girl because I adore and love her and she does to. She helps me with a lot of stuff like buying clothes for the wedding and helps me understand German language a lot and she treats me like a normal person which is a bonus for me considering I've been taken as an advantage before with my autisim I battle with daily.

Actually I got into Stefan Raab by her when I was watching Schlag Den Raab his game show he does in Germany and boom as soon as I watched the show. I got hooked on it and became a fan of Stefan after that show with me then watching TV Total and his sport events he runs once in a while. There we are with a story on how I became a fan of that guy and watch some vids on youtube or even look him up on google to find out what other stuff he's done and to know who he is too cos you all would be surprised what he's done in the entertainment business in Germany.

Yes it's true that I told Kash in a PM about this before I left for Germany but I told him not to tell anyone until the time was right for me to tell everyone.

[Reaver]

nah it dont matter babe relax.

[Jason Cashe]

I wouldn't tell people something that isn't even my business to know to begin with. You a homie, I got you covered for anything you need that I can do.

[Peter Shelley]

Oct 5, 2013 1:38:53 GMT -4 Reaver said:

sex videos? LOL

i watched an episode of kardasians (dont ask me y) where 2 of them dressed up like the mom and dad and did a fake sex video and shared it with the family. bruce said it wasnt funny and stormed off then yelled about how the mom said she erased all those videos. talk about calling himself out lmfao. he felt stupid when they showed it was a fake.




I don't even know where to begin describe everything that's wrong with you just from reading this post. You are legitimately terrifying.

[Peter Shelley]

Also, libertarian principle, as long as you're not hurting someone else you're okay in my book. Congratulations on "coming out"?

[President Jeff]

Awesome, another thing we have in common Raab. We're both into Chicks

[Lord Raab]

LOL it's like what don't we have in common at this rate with Ice Hockey, us being almost the same age as each other with you being a few weeks older than me. This is too much damn it Jeff LOL.

But I kind of had to Kash because I don't want to keep doing this whole not RPing situation and being quite curious to why it's happening so often. I feel so much better of telling everyone about this than keeping it hidden from my APW family.

Although I can see why majority of the guys that like wrestling fancy Velvet Sky cos I do actually find her quite attractive along with Jennifer Aniston and that girl in Big Bang Theory too. Yeah I just fancy a lot of blond chicks for some reason.

[Peter Shelley]

Oct 5, 2013 10:50:19 GMT -4 Lord Raab said:

LOL it's like what don't we have in common at this rate with Ice Hockey, us being almost the same age as each other with you being a few weeks older than me. This is too much damn it Jeff LOL.

But I kind of had to Kash because I don't want to keep doing this whole not RPing situation and being quite curious to why it's happening so often. I feel so much better of telling everyone about this than keeping it hidden from my APW family.

Although I can see why majority of the guys that like wrestling fancy Velvet Sky cos I do actually find her quite attractive along with Jennifer Aniston and that girl in Big Bang Theory too. Yeah I just fancy a lot of blond chicks for some reason.

Anybody a fan of redheads?

[Lord Raab]

I am relaxed now though Knuckles knowing that I got that off my chest. I know that my girlfriend would be proud of me for doing this post. I'm nice and calm about things.

[Evan De Parker]

Oct 5, 2013 1:29:43 GMT -4 Jason Cashe said:

I knew it! Well Raab told me a good minute ago but you have no reason to hide that. People don't look down on Lesbians. It's just the gays that get bashed by rude fuckers.

What? ... You must not have a lot of gay friends.

Anyway, that's awesome, Raab. I'm glad you've found somebody that you like and that you can trust.

[Jason Cashe]

Ummm no...I have 4 Gay Uncles or "Formerly Gay" with ONE having AIDS. Kind of figured I was up to date on the quota.

[Evan De Parker]

I was in a testy mood when I left that comment. Forgive me.

Although, I can safely say from my experience, from my walk of life, with one of my best friends being an open lesbian, I can honestly say that no matter how feminine and girly you appear, lesbians catch just as much flack. It's just usually from other females, somehow seen as less malicious by the general public (or media, I suppose), and thus swept under the rug.

But this isn't the thread to talk about that, so I'm going to end my part in this side-convo right there. Message me if you wanna discuss it further.

[Jason Cashe]

Yeah, yeah I was just making jokes when I said folks don't hate on Lesbians. I know better and was just playing to things a bit. I am a firm believer in people being able to be happy regardless. The only happiness I hope is ruined is child molesters and rapists. Fuck them in all forms of life. I've been cool with skinheads, black panthers, and murderers but never a rapist or child molester. That's my line in the sand. Personal Preference and Gays just aren't that bad to me.

NOW do I think people should be promoted for their sexual preference? Like Darren Young after he came out? I don't think there is a need to always make coming out public. Tell your parents, your friends, but keep sexual preference to that alone. Anything more is trying to gain attention. Currently it works.

Also bothers me that Freedom of Speech (even hateful instances) are being taken from Americans. People getting fired or shit on for having their beliefs against Gays or Race even for that matter. We've completely put aside a freedom that once made us, US. Right or Wrong the freedom should remain ours. Like Envi said though, this isn't the place for that and I just felt the need to type. I could have made it worse and did it in 2-3 posts to add to the Post Count...? Haha

[Peter Shelley]

Oct 5, 2013 23:23:15 GMT -4 Jason Cashe said:

Fuck them in all forms of life. I've been cool with skinheads, black panthers, and murderers but never a rapist or child molester.



It's staggering how patient people in some of those extreme right communities can be. 

The most incredible thing I've ever seen in my entire life to date (including Maria Kanelis' Playboy shoot) was sitting at a table in a bar for a friends birthday two months back and watching a bisexual feminist, a rainbow stickers pride type gay activist and a Neo-Nazi skinhead sit together and talk beliefs without hatred or aggression or violence or fear. Seeing this skinhead just sit there chill as you like between the gay guy and the feminist as they talked about equality and the struggles with homophobia/woman hating and seeing him icy like Buddha, not flipping his shit but just taking it all in was just... unreal.

Dude is an unbelievable Jedi skinhead.

[Jason Cashe]

Jedi skinhead? Did you just mix hateful folks and StarWars? Explain yourself to my simple mind!

[SalTal]

Oct 5, 2013 23:23:15 GMT -4 Jason Cashe said:

NOW do I think people should be promoted for their sexual preference? Like Darren Young after he came out? I don't think there is a need to always make coming out public. Tell your parents, your friends, but keep sexual preference to that alone. Anything more is trying to gain attention. Currently it works.

If we lived in a society that wasn't hung-up on the whole 'GAYZ!!' thing then I'd agree with you. If society truly didn't care about whether someone was gay or straight or anything else, then it would be pointless. If everyone was over the same/different divide, someone would come out, everyone would shrug their shoulders, and continue about their way. People (or businesses that benefit from) only get traction because people (less than before, but still a majority) still get to talking and are still hung-up on it all.

But I also think that your point about people not being promoted for their sexual preference is a bit short sighted.

Clearly there is a loud minority (perhaps majority, I don't live in the US and can only speak for here) of people who - whenever something about LGBT issues comes up - make their most revolting and disgusting opinions heard. So long as those attitudes and opinions are given a speaker, so too should the opposite to those. That is to say, if someone is yelling about how great black is, there should be someone else yelling about how great white is if only because of how personal this issue is for people. We're not talking about favourite games and movies here - we're talking about people's lives. And so long as there are people making others feel less or worse about themselves for no justifiable reason, I think people should be promoting the positive images and lives of potential role models.

Think about this: There's a kid, growing up, watching wrestling. Kids gay, but he doesn't tell anyone out of fear or rejection. But he watches wrestling because he thinks it's fun and entertaining. There's all these scantily clad women, jokes and storylines and episodes all about boyfriend-girlfriend, etc. It's just awash of things not only he can't identify with, but things that make him think he's not 'normal'. WWE hasn't necessarily done anything wrong - they know their demographics and they know what will sell. Indeed, they've probably done something right if the backstage 'environment' was good enough that Young wanted to come out.

Then comes a wrestler who openly says "I am gay". Yes, WWE benefits from it. But now this kid thinks "You know what? Maybe I'm not that different. If he can do what he wanted ..."

Now I'm not saying that wrestling should be some great force for social engineering, but so long as the conditions exist whereby someone dealing with LGBT issues is confronted with the homophobic and bigoted attitudes in a big way, then people should be promoted if only for a short time. If only to give those people having to deal with these issues a chance at having a role model and someone to look up to.